I have an intuition that since the pleasure is diffused over smaller surface area, it would be more intense. It is said womens orgasms are more intense because the clitoris is much smaller altho perhaps its more nerve-dense, they arent normally circumcized, and its more coincidental instead.
Its sort of a solipsistic issue since nobody can access the experience outside of their own personal findings to compare but whatev. Theres zero loss in simply asking
Pleasure and orgasm is entirely in the brain.
The size of appendages only matter as a contrast to other sizes and in and of themselves neither add nor detract from the basic ability to give or receive pleasure.
Its like people who are color kind never know they are colorblind until they are shown to be colorblind.
People who are more or less sensitive have nothing to compare it against, so to them it’s just how sensitive they are.