• livus@kbin.social
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    3 months ago

    On one hand I’d really like to receive something like this but the part where someone photographs you and uploads it for clout is really offputting.

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      3 months ago

      I don’t think it’s for clout. I think it’s to show other people how nice life can be. Sometimes we need a reminder to appreciate the people we love.

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        3 months ago

        Fair enough. I think for me it just seems too intimate to be a “let’s show other people” focused moment, but everyone’s different.

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      3 months ago

      If you don’t like stuff like that, you maybe shouldn’t visit this community, lots of wholesome stuff is like that.

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        3 months ago

        Thanks @RootBeerGuy but I’m all good.

        I like this community a lot, and this is the first time I’ve ever been disconcerted after clicking.

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        3 months ago

        I don’t think “if you don’t like it, then get out” is a very wholesome sentiment

        Something tells me you shouldn’t be the gatekeeper for this community

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          I read it as “if you don’t like it, then a place where it’s the explicit purpose might not be for you,” which is pretty wholesome in its earnestness to me.

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            3 months ago

            Yeah, that describes it better. Thank you for writing that out, I do get it I should have elaborated but you can only write as much.

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      3 months ago

      My boyfriend wrote me a birthday poem once but it was about dick cheese. Then he gave me a jar of fake dick cheese. We’re coming up on our 8 years. You’ll meet someone with low enough expectations one day.

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          The gift itself was just a jar with a label he made that said “(my name)'s dick cheese”. Then he put some white food substance in there I don’t recall exactly what it was but didn’t look like real dick cheese thankfully.

          If you’re asking me what actual smegma is though… I won’t ruin it for you, but I’ll say a jar of parmesan would’ve been more accurate.

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      Your unrealistic is just not unrealistic enough, what a poser of an impostor are you