I’ll be intrested in the results of this thread

but even decades later, Twitter style interfaces do not make sense to me

Oh I feel the pain

I run proxmox and a trunas VM.

• TrueNAS is on a virt disk on a NVME drive with all the other VMs/LXCs
• I pass the HBA through to TrueNAS with PCI passthrough: 6 disk Raid z2. this is ‘vault’ and has all my backups of hone dirs and photos etc
• I pass through two HDs as raw disks for bulk storage (of linux ISOs): 2 disk Mirrored zfs

Seems to work well

I would try that a few more time, the fact that you were doing something will help with any anxiety

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bj9DAq8iLQ0

I’m wondering if you have an incorrect gateway set or default route

also, what ports on both routers are connected? are they both using “WAN” for their uplink?

As said look at DHCP clashes or " Wall -> Ethernet Splitter -> PC Under either"

What do you mean by this? The ones I know of will drop the connection to 10mb or 100mb and will on work on both “halves” at the same time*

• see comment by @Max_P

you could probably find cheaper with more to do more

I see you mentioned the free Oracle cloud servers, they are not simple to use like many cloud VPS. But if you wanted to go down that route then if you get a full account with a CC on file then you can normally get the ampere instance (still free)

I say go with proxmox on the n100 (I use it), there are alternatives kvm/QEMU managers that I heard good things about as well (namely Incus https://github.com/lxc/incus )

Fuck New Sci, I went to go back to re-read part of the article to SWMBO and get “You have reached your article limit”

Ask JD Vance?

When I was doing a lot of custom ROMs on xda I had some guy supply a new phone to me to further develop on - this happened twice. It’s nice when it happens but it’s not why I was building ROMs

Very interesting, I made a local community !kiwiclassifieds@no.lastname.nz a year or so ago but have done nothing with it

Nudity has never been a thing to worry about before, but in the last 6 months or so she wants her space (fair enough). This just happend the other week. Kids will make more of somethings than others. and it all depends on the timing.

For me and my (very - it may be down to just me logging in, but a couple of the communities have a few people that read/vote) small instance it comes down to feel (“Don’t be a dick”). Dave, the admin of lemmy.nz (about 80 users per week) has the same in their side board as their “Rule”. Dave and I set up our *nz instances in the same week and we chat often. He might not be quire as quick with the ban hammer as I might be though.

When you are this small even a small outside problem can have huge effects on your instance

with *nz content on my instance, very few

Admin of a small instance, I have banned 2 accounts for another instance that were downvoting almost all content in a threads without any other interaction. They were being disruptive to the flow at the time, much like @ericjmorey@discuss.online describes.

untill the 9y/o daughter says, “haha daddy, I just saw you bits…”. And then brings it up every day for the next week.

I ran Arch and moved on