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  • I was referring to IRL safe spaces and support groups.

    Making men’s spaces online specifically has the dual problem of being attacked by both misogynists and radical feminists. It’s a lot of work and a lot of hate to deal with, so they don’t pop up a lot. But yes, they do exist, there’s a semi-active menslib community on lemmy for example. I think that one veers way too heavily into the “us men are really awful aren’t we?” feminist takes, personally; the reddit one was a lot better.




  • Man, I have been in SO MANY internet arguments where I am simultaneously arguing against a woman that yes, men have problems, while also arguing against a man that no, those problems are not worse on the whole than women have.

    Back when the whole “bear in the woods” thing was going around misogynists would try to jump in and support me.

    Woman: “all men are rapists”

    Me: “that’s insulting and hurtful and misandrist, and also not even close to true”

    Misogynist: “Yeah! And also women are heartless bitches!”

    Me: “I don’t remember asking YOU a goddamn thing”