Yes

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/ maybe? But if you don’t like the state of gay communities, it would be worthwhile to contribute with content on those instances and create a snowball effect.

I’m an engineering manager, started from the bottom now I’m here. Really, went junior dev / qa - dev - senior - staff then software architect then technical manager. Management is as hard as coding, but in a different way. Just because someone is not smashing their mechanical keyboards 8 hours per day doesn’t mean they’re lazy.

some people don’t understand even the surface level of how a computer works

Most people don’t understand even the surface level of how a car works, but it’s not needed, they can drive. Same with computers, you don’t need to understand how they work in order to use them, thanks to MS & Apple (no, I will not include Linus Torvalds).

Check https://lemmy.world/instances

Consider instituting a “read only reddit” policy

One should also log-out of Reddit if possible.