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Cake day: June 25th, 2023

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  • The two matters aren’t mutually exclusive and ultimately their motives don’t matter as much as the effect. Getting riled up and indignant about some people’s racism is useless and even counterproductive-- especially compared to focusing on the source.

    Racism being systemic means there are barriers to overcome at every income level. Everyone has already bought into it at varying levels, so you can’t just go “See, look, they’re racist!” Outside of a few like-minded people, the typical response would range from shoulder shrugs to annoyance at best. Many will even perceive the accuser as acting superior.

    If we’re talking about racism on a systemic level, exposing that there IS someone who benefits is necessary to get people invested in societal healing. Most people are constantly tired and from their perspective, don’t have the energy to care about what they perceive as other people’s problems. Make it their problem too, and maybe something will change.



  • Before job shadowing through any persons you know (or can set up meetings with) that would help, consider the kinds of things you liked to do/imagine for play as a kid, and what it is about those things that you really loved. For each one type of play or role-playing you truly enjoyed as a kid, you can probably tease out several connected options. Then figure out which is most realistic to you, narrowing it down according to your present preferences.

    Also, on the off chance your parents were so dismissive as to make you feel deep down like you can’t do anything or nothing you do matters, they were wrong-- you can and it does. Fight long enough that the story ends at the good part and not during the temporary disappointments along the way.














  • After the Trump administration warned federal employees of “adverse consequences” for not reporting colleagues resisting orders to eliminate diversity, equity and inclusion programs, citizens began submitting false reports to the special email account: DEIAtruth@opm.gov. Here’s one example: “A man named Donald Trump is doing affirmative action for billionaires and oligarchs against the mandate to stop hiring minority groups.”

    A commenter after my own heart. 😄