Opening up your relationship to another is tricky - you have to have immense trust in all involved. Do you trust that this guy isn’t just trying to get your wife? Do you trust that your wife isn’t just trying to get another man in the bed or transitioning over to him? Do you trust yourself to not be jealous when he takes her to bed (or goes on a one-on-one date)? If any of these questions gave you a little twinge of sick in your gut, that means you need to explore that - is it something you can overcome with conversations and agreed limits or is it too deep?

I was in a triad and it took some work to get over my jealousy (which I had in all my previous relationships and was not healthy anyway). However, it was a really rewarding experience - I had a same-gender partner to do things with, being with two people in bed is fun, and when things went bad with one partner, I had another one to emotionally support me and help me work through it before having a conversation with the other.

However, again, you have to trust that everyone has the others’ best interests at heart because there’s definitely the potential for one to try and turn the other against you if they aren’t trustworthy.

Good luck!

Sad to hear this. I liked the people I’ve met from lemm.ee and the hands-off approach to defederation that the instance had.

This isn’t really how 14 year olds text, right?

Yeah, thank her but not by name and airline. If she just said what she said without that and Melissa saw it, I’m sure she would know it’s for her.

In Germany it’s even worse. There it depends on the state you obtained your US license in, since Germany has agreements with some states but not all…

Wow, I did not expect that. Is it more with or without agreements?

Everyone hoping to get accidentally added to a government group chat.

That is correct.

I’ve been afraid to say this on Lemmy, but I own a Tesla Model 3 and it’s worth it for many things, but mostly the FSD for my 40 min commute. I almost exclusively charge at home, and would not buy another Tesla now but, at the time I bought it, things weren’t so bad and it’s my first brand new car so sorry, not sorry.

Finally got one today!

Someone looked into one of the Nicole accounts, and on that account there was a photo of something shiny, I believe it was a buttplug, and there was clearly a reflection of an old white man reflecting off the object.

I want to know more about this!

Shout out to Hexbear.net (née chapo.chat), pioneers of the lemmyverse, who came here by necessity for being too left, just as many of you are now! ❤️

When they took API access away I was pissed but I stayed. But taking away my free speech, seriously?

I guess you didn’t hear how they were taking down Reddit alternative posts during the API debacle. They were already crossing the line then.

That’s okay, .world turned their conservative sub into jokes on conservatives, so you can tell it’s better here.

Harkens me back to ol’ GameFAQs days when my friend tried to get around spoiler rules by making an HeiressDyes alt… Fight the system!!

Reddit is compromised.

Elders of Lemmy:

Yeah, I’ve gotten a 2 wins, the first was almost a full clear! I’m starting to get the hang of it.

I guess I just haven’t gotten the hang of it yet.

I was one heart away from getting 13 hearts, but at that point I was out of options. 😫

Have you ever won?

Skynet?