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Observing a system you’re in and have no control over must be done objectively.

If Biden starts officially executing people, he can accomplish anything he wants.

I play this on my android phone. It’s free, ad-free, and you can pay to support.

The updates have been awesome. It’s extremely difficult, and it’s not unusual to die a buncha times before your first success.

Cows make best friends. You probably saw a cow who just daw her beat friend die.

If it makes you feel better, I left my family when I was young for my found family and my life is ten billion percent better.

The Brunch Amendment of 2008 lists all the people welcome to brunch and explicitly states that allies are allowed.

I call bullshit.

I do not see brunch anywhere on that list.

Aldi has been doing it forever. But it doesn’t change based on surge pricing. What an evil idea…

The 67-year-old woman who started kicking him, then took off a shoe to beat him with… I want to be her when I grow up.

Obviously that’s the case. I didn’t make a statement contrary to it. My point was “even if it’s not guaranteed, some is better than none,” not, “be happy to get anything at all.”

We should be pissed we don’t have guaranteed access to the meds that make us function! It’s our entire lives in jeopardy! But the person I’m replying to doesn’t yet know that they can have at least some help, and that was the point I was making.

If this seems aggressive it’s because I’m constantly being attacked on the internet for saying something I didn’t say.

I mean… it doesn’t need time to build in your system. ADHD meds work from after you take them until they wear off (the extended release is about 7 and a half hours for me) so even if you can only get them sporadically, some help is better than none.

I promise many of us are not.

Mine has a setting where if a number calls you once, it blocks. If it calls you a second time, it goes through. And it works! I use it all the time.

“Fundamentally attracts females” sounds like you get your advice from other men on the internet, and not the two women who are both attracted to men that you’re currently talking to.

Example; my fiance has a gigantic beard. But! He trims the underside so it doesn’t grow out of his friggin throat, and he trims it down so it doesnt grow way up on his cheeks like a werewolf. He gets his hair cut regularly, and aside from that he just keeps all of it clean and free of tangles.

On other men, this squarish beard would look terrible. But on him, it’s fantastic. He has a longer face, so this is what works for him. And it was advice I gave him (back when we were just friends).

A dear friend of mine is an autistic gentleman who was having trouble dating online. I asked him some questions, figured out what he can and can’t do for his comfort, and then from there I helped him alter his clothing choices. Nothing expensive, just explained how to change his color choices to work with his skin and eyes! I advised him on how to care for his (very long, he has a sensory thing) hair, and then introduced him to fragrance. He dated two girls until he met his current girlfriend and they’ve been together a year and a half!

Don’t get your advice from men who aren’t even attracted to men. When you want to know what’s attractive, find and ask the people who are capable of being attracted to you. Anyone else is just wasting your time. And the bottom line has nothing to do with expense or resources or wealth. The style that suits you could be as cheap as t-shirts and jeans you already own, as long as it’s the stuff that works with your appearance, not against.

This kind of recognition helps, to be honest.

Here’s to us improving!

The rest of that sentence was, if those men find out what looks good on them. As in, on those individuals, specifically.

This was the first time on Lemmy I had to suppress the knee-jerk urge to insult someone.

Everyone can improve their appearance with education and effort. Everyone.

(Number Five.)

I only know this because I rewatched that cold open to make this comment in a different thread.

Vagueposting is lame. Either say something or don’t. Don’t call attention ot what you’re not saying.

This is the best kind of people coming to an understanding.

I want to say (cuz I’ve said it a million times) that it can seem like occurrences are going up when really, people like me never got help. I didn’t get diagnosed until I was 34 and that was while getting treatment for depression!

There’s a lot more cases like mine than we know about, so even if we are only catching up to the “normal” number of neurologically atypical people, it’s going to seem like we are gaining more cases.