Right now there is a bit left to be desired when it comes to lemmys accessibility features, but it’s a good idea to be mindful of the fact the fediverse and its platforms tends to have pretty universal accessibility features that will likely come to lemmy sooner rather than later
I can be very abrasive when annoyed and instead of backing down I call things out. It’s a personal flaw of mine. Instead of saying “I think there’s a misunderstanding” to a combative person, I’ll say “you’re wrong, and more importantly, you’re stupid”. I meet combativeness with combativeness.