My 20’s are mostly a blur because I was semi bedbound because of a heart + neurological condition so I don’t even remember much of what happened. If you ask me what I remember from my 20s most of it is just vague descriptions of hospital appointments. Mentally I’d say I’m at the age I was right before I got really sick, around 20. Despite all the stress my illness caused me everyone says I look 18 or 19. When I say my age people legitimately think I’m trying to prank them. If I put my photo on a dating website along with my age people are going to assume I’m doing a bad job at catfishing. I don’t know what to do. Do I get with a 35 year old guy (which would look weird in public) or date someone a little over my perceived age?
I have male pattern baldness, which I don’t think would work for you quite so well(!), but I can change my apparent age by 10 years by simply putting on a baseball cap. I figure there must be things other people can do that have the same effect. Make-up maybe. Or less of it.
Most people lean into reducing wrinkles and crows feet. Maybe the opposite strategy might be for you.
That said, maybe you don’t need to care about what other people think, and you can just keep doing what you have been doing without resorting to any changes whatsoever. If you look like an adult, and aren’t acting like you’ve been abducted, then people aren’t going to call the police on your potential boyfriends, and that’s all you’d really need to worry about. Let people talk. People are stupid.