• CraigeryTheKid@lemm.ee
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    7 months ago

    I sound like you, but I bet your answer is that we’re buying groceries and preparing a lot of those meals.

    Single parents or busy ones that can’t do that have to buy ready food.

    A classic tale of “it’s expensive to be poor”.

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      7 months ago

      And the costs are beyond just dollars. My wife and I recently started cooking at home (and even growing some food) and I lost 20 pounds. My wife lost 50 pounds. We aren’t cooking the healthiest things ever, but we make it at home.

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      7 months ago

      So I started looking at prices since my comment and I think you hit the nail on the head. It’s astounding to me what the difference in cost is for premade or hell even just not bulk. I had no idea how much I was saving with a vacuum sealer and apparent luxury of having a large pantry and large standup freezer to go with the kitchen fridge/freezer. I don’t think I could make it through more than a couple days using a top of fridge freezer if that’s all I had. So bulk buying wouldn’t even really be possible as a typical renter. Just the wasted time having to shop multiple times a week (not just grabbing something but legit grocery shopping) sounds miserable and the expense from extra trips doesn’t help any.

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        With only a few people, you can maybe go a week with a normal freezer. But you will be eating everything you have. With 6 people? You would need to go shopping every 2 or 3 days. You will not buy frozen things in bulk unless you want to only eat a few items for 2 days.

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      Nobody has to buy pre-made food. That’s just inherent lazy bullshit. Not to say the economy isn’t fucked left right and center, and recent inflation is completely fabricated bullshit. But to say you have to buy ready-made tells me you’re too stupid to cook, or stupid with your time.

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        Bro , some people work multiple jobs and literally have time to sleep when they are home. They don’t have time to cook. It happens, and those people aren’t lazy.

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          I’d love to see how many manage to find downtime for their phones, etc. Takes 20 minutes tops to make a healthy meal.

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            7 months ago

            Odd that you found time to post, you should really be working harder.

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              7 months ago

              I’m not struggling since I understand how to take care of myself.

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                7 months ago

                Do you have to take care of a family? One where your domestic partner can’t work because they have to look after the kid(s)?

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        in my city, there are numerous “food deserts” where fresh food generally isn’t available, and people go to pricey convenience stores which sell, guess what, premade food, junk. When you are raised that way, and everyone around you does the same, it comes naturally. And who is educating them otherwise, or making useful changes?

        My mom grew up not knowing how to cook, bc they almost never had real food in their house (actually the “projects”, single mom with schizoaffective disorder, four kids). She was working at like 12, 13, and if she were still alive, I’d love for you to try telling her they were lazy lmao

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          7 months ago

          I’d be happy to call her lazy as your anecdote is just that. Books exist, as do library’s, all full of knowledge on how to make shit to eat.